"Dangerous Downplay" by Monica WP

*A poem about sexism and unworthy men*

When the men call to me
I look at them coolly
While I feel rage bubble
Because they will never know how giving them my heart
Would only trip them
Cause them to dash against the rocks
Of my Oya spirit
So that they would never see clearly
Or recover
Again

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